Marked by God’s Calendar

Some dates don’t just stay on the calendar. They burn into your memory. They carve meaning into your soul.

My brother died on April 1st. My husband died on April 18th. For a long time, those days just brought sorrow. But this year, something sacred broke through.

April 1st, I learned, often aligns with the start of the biblical year. In Exodus 12:2, God says, “This month shall be for you the beginning of months.” That month is Nisan—when God rescued His people from Egypt and began a new story of freedom, symbolizing new beginnings and redemption. Significant for the Passover holiday in which Israel was delivered from slavery.

My brother died at the start of God’s calendar. A new beginning. Not an end.

Then, I looked at April 18th, 2025. The 7th anniversary of my husband’s death.

It’s Good Friday. The day Jesus gave His life.

He died on the same day we remember the cross—the day love paid the ultimate price, and hope seemed lost.

That’s when I realized: their dates weren’t just personal. They were sacred.

Reflection

God doesn’t waste our pain. He weaves it into something bigger than we can see.

My brother’s passing on the first day of God’s redemptive calendar reminds me that even in death, there is a beginning. And my husband’s passing on Good Friday echoes the deep truth that sacrifice is never the end of the story.

“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” —Psalm 116:15

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens… a time to be born and a time to die.” —Ecclesiastes 3:1-2

Maybe our grief lives inside God’s seasons. Maybe our losses are not random, but woven into His holy calendar.

Lord of all seasons, thank You for revealing the sacred in the sorrow. Thank You for showing me that even the hardest days are not forgotten—they are marked on Your calendar, full of purpose and promise. Help me trust You with the dates that hurt, and believe You are still writing a story of resurrection. Amen.

Lovingly & Faithfully,

Sally

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